Aaron Thomas wrote to Dr. What <=-

You're right, and it is a myth, but there's a better word for it, something like "brainwashing." Poor people need to realize that there
are ways to get out of poverty, and all they need to do is change their attitude and be ambitious. Narratives have some people fooled into thinking that it can never change, and that they're destined to eat
bread heels for the rest of their lives.

And they are brainwashed into a counter-productive culture (like stabbing someone because he dissed me at a game) that not only keeps them poor, but ruins their chances of getting out.

Planning ahead is smart, but sometimes people have to take things one
day at a time. If they're broke or in debt 100% of the time, there's simply no such thing as "saving for the future." They've got to (and
I'm one of these people) find a job that offers a future in the first place.

They've got to take control of themselves. If they are broke or in debt all of the time, what are the odds that they drink and smoke, or possibly do weed? Pretty high, from what I've seen.

I don't know how many relatives I've heard complain about not having the money to do necessary-thing-1 or necessary-thing-2, but they always seem to have plenty of money for their cigarettes and to go the bar.


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Ron L. wrote to Aaron Thomas <=-

They lack self-control and the ability to understand that decisions of consequences that they have to take.

Addiction is real. To expect a truly addictive personality to weigh their consequences is a little naive.

I know people who manage addiction. I wouldn't say "beat" addiction, as
they learn that they can't start the addictive personality, otherwise
they won't be able to stop. That takes an incredible amount of
introspection and self-examination, as well as a lot of inner strength.

There's more than one type of addiction. I've seen people that behaved
in self-harmful manners that could change direction. For them the
addictive behaviors were more of a habit, I'd venture to guess. Change
the environment, change the habit, and the behavior changes.


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Planning ahead is smart, but sometimes people have to take things one day at a time. If they're broke or in debt 100% of the time, there's simply no such thing as "saving for the future." They've got to (and I'm one of these people) find a job that offers a future in the first place.

They've got to take control of themselves. If they are broke or in debt all of the time, what are the odds that they drink and smoke, or
possibly do weed? Pretty high, from what I've seen.

I think most people can balance weed, alcohol, and a checkbook. The people who are constantly broke and are high, I think they're high on something else.

I don't know how many relatives I've heard complain about not having the money to do necessary-thing-1 or necessary-thing-2, but they always seem to have plenty of money for their cigarettes and to go the bar.

The bar thing is something that I can't relate to. Why pay more when you can get it at Walmart way cheaper? I liked drinking with other people when I was younger, but now days I drink alone, at home, and rarely.

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I had too many relatives who died of cirrhosis of the liver from chronic alcahol. So my family never really did the drinking. By the time I
could explore for myself, it wasn't something that interested me.

Most people are better off without alcohol, but some people rely on it as a psychiatric medicine. I used to be one of them. It's not ideal but it works as an emotional pain killer.

I know how people look when they're drunk, smelling like piss, all skinny,
and asking people outside the gas station for money. But I can say with certainty that some of them aren't like that by choice.

And here's where politics plays a role in it: Psychiatrists are university-bred leftists, and they're loyal to pharmaceutical companies.

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Aaron Thomas wrote to Dr. What <=-

I think most people can balance weed, alcohol, and a checkbook. The
people who are constantly broke and are high, I think they're high on something else.

They lack self-control and the ability to understand that decisions of consequences that they have to take.

The bar thing is something that I can't relate to. Why pay more when
you can get it at Walmart way cheaper? I liked drinking with other
people when I was younger, but now days I drink alone, at home, and rarely.

I had too many relatives who died of cirrhosis of the liver from chronic alcahol. So my family never really did the drinking. By the time I could explore for myself, it wasn't something that interested me.


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Aaron Thomas wrote to Dr. What <=-

I know how people look when they're drunk, smelling like piss, all
skinny, and asking people outside the gas station for money. But I can
say with certainty that some of them aren't like that by choice.

They are **all** like that by choice. They may not have made a conscious choice, but they did choose.

And here's where politics plays a role in it: Psychiatrists are university-bred leftists, and they're loyal to pharmaceutical
companies.

Ya, but they usually focus on the medical field to create the addiction/dependance.


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And here's where politics plays a role in it: Psychiatrists are university-bred leftists, and they're loyal to pharmaceutical companies.

Ya, but they usually focus on the medical field to create the addiction/dependance.

For sure. There are "experts" in every field.

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Aaron Thomas wrote to Dr. What <=-

For sure. There are "experts" in every field.

And that's nothing new. I remember reading a professional article complaining about the "amateurs passing themselves off as professionals".

Then there's the usual problem of the Anointed Ones who assume that because they are an expert in Field 1, they are automatically experts in Fields 2, 3 and 4.


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And that's nothing new. I remember reading a professional article complaining about the "amateurs passing themselves off as professionals".

That's funny!

Then there's the usual problem of the Anointed Ones who assume that because they are an expert in Field 1, they are automatically experts in Fields 2, 3 and 4.

Well you see, Bill Gates had an early 90s computer that was infected with a virus, so now he's a virology expert and he's intentionally mutating mosquitoes with a deadly virus, because every professional expert knows that in order to solve a problem, first you have to make it exponentially worse. ;)

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